Radical Love - One (The Inner Explorer)

Through a deep and gentle healing process, Radical Love one allows the aspects of oneself that are disowned and unwanted to be felt and embraced. Through conditioning and painful experiences most of us have feelings that we have pushed away and banished to our 'basement'. We try very hard NOT to encounter these feelings again because of the pain and because of what we believe they say about us. These feelings include shame, struggle, loneliness, unworthiness, abandonment and anger. Fear is a big one we may fear opening our heart and being vulnerable, we may fear failing and we may fear being successful, we may fear being hurt again and letting love in.

It is the judgements that we hold in our minds about these feelings that create the splits in us. Feelings that are wanted and feelings that are unwanted, like flowers and weeds in our garden. We are feeling something (eg) unworthiness and our minds judge this feeling, tell us it is not ok, that we shouldn’t be feeling it, it’s ukk. This creates more pain and then one part of us is trying to control another. How can we ever find peace in this?

We may also project this non-acceptance of a feeling or way of being onto others in our life: we reject aspects of our self by judging and rejecting others.

The Radical Love process

In Radical Love - One we examine and unravel our judgements, our shoulds and shouldn’ts and all the mental construction and layers that we put in place to deny so many human feelings and experience and protect ourselves.

The process in Radical Love is first about really seeing how we do this - how we reject, how we push away, how we judge, how our minds try to control life through our ideas of who we are, who we should be, who everyone else is, who God is. And then, with this clarity of insight, how to engage with our human feelings and experiences.

Radical Love opens a space for reconnecting with feelings that are painful, the ones we don’t want to feel.

There is an invitation to explore and welcome these unwanted parts, to be felt, engaged with, embraced, without any of the mental gymnastics of trying to subtlety or grossly avoid it. By directly feeling something we are able to bring it back into the light in our heart, then we are experiencing love, radical love, which allows everything, even the worst feeling, the one you hate the most!

Radical Love is a deconstruction process, shining a light on how we create resistance to what is happening in our life.
 

Become a Radical Explorer

The Radical love Healing process is experiential. It allows you to explore and discover through guided partnered, group and individual processes. This is a powerful process. It is like excavation, digging for gold, unearthing the treasure - and YOU are the explorer, you discover and experience what lies underneath it all. This process is about love... Love is the fabric of everything, including what you like and don’t like about yourself, but only you can truly know yourself as this great energy, through feeling it, experiencing it, knowing it, verifying it.

You cannot get rid of your human 'basement'. None of us can - it won’t go away, it will simply return again and again until we allow, accept, embrace and feel the truth. And then we don’t need or want to get rid of it, we can hang out in the basement just as comfortably as the mezzanine! This is the Radical Love healing process, this is wholeness, this is peace.

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